seeking safety

Its still an unknown territory.........
Its a fantasy that caused a certain amount of negative feelings as it started to become a reality
Its a book that may never be opened again
We don't know how to go about a "third" or an "extra" as she so matter of factly said.
I am not sure I want to follow any specific rules laid out by anyone else.
But I do know that he cannot choose for me like I thought
So much for being submissive =P
Our curiosity continues as a friendship develops with a lesbian and her culture of friends and lovers.
I am open to the possibilities